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It’s OK if you’re struggling right now.
No one taught you how to handle this.
You’ve fallen in love with a man — but the biological mother of his kids seems hostile.
This wasn’t how it was supposed to go.
Intuitively, you know something isn’t right.
But where can you turn?
You need your partner to be your teammate — but it feels like he’s unconsciously enabling her behavior, fearing what she might do next.
Your stomach goes into knots when his phone lights up with a call or message from her.
You start to ask yourself — am I crazy? Am I being too sensitive?
You might have read books, listened to podcasts, or even sought professional advice — but it still isn’t helping.
It feels like she’s determined to make your lives a living hell.
But you’ve got a warrior spirit and you know you have a good man — so you persevere.
You’re drowning in stress and feel like you’re losing control of your life.
You feel isolated.
No one else seems to understand.
You’ve had ENOUGH. Something needs to change.
You’ve done an AMAZING job so far.
Our stories are more similar than you may think and I know how painful this is.
Many other women are also living in this dysfunctional pattern of pain, anxiety and energy-draining conflict.
And you know what — this feels hard because it IS hard.
Society pressures us to believe that we should all be able to co-parent cooperatively for the sake of the kids.
BUT you’re living in an abnormal situation and one size does not fit all.
The regular rules of co-parenting can’t be applied to high-conflict cases.
That’s the trap.
And that’s why surface level advice isn’t working, as reasonable as it might be.
Being a biological parent does NOT give someone the “right” to play destructive games with other people’s lives.
And most importantly, just because you’re a target, doesn’t mean you have to be a victim.
It might be time to start seeing the situation for what it is.
You CAN break the cycle.
I can show you how.
“If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.” – Stephen Covey
If you want a different outcome, make different choices.
Here’s the thing — the more you blame someone else for being the source of your problems, the more you disempower yourself.
By complaining about the same issues without initiating change or sweeping things under the rug, you’re risking:
YOUR emotional well-being, YOUR physical health, YOUR relationship — not theirs.
The magic happens when we’re able to take a step back and get honest and accountable in our own lives.
YOU get to choose what you will allow into your life and what you won’t accept.
So — I’m inviting you to approach it with a fresh and empowered perspective.
Conflict can be an opportunity for growth, or it can wreak havoc on your life.
It can deepen your relationship, or it can destroy it.
You get to choose which path you’ll take.
A transformative one-on-one coaching program for women in the stepmom role who are dating, in a committed relationship, or married to a man who has children.
My course is for those of you in a co-parenting situation that has consistently been causing stress for you and your significant other.
And — no matter how hard you try to co-parent peacefully with the biological mother of the kids — the dynamic isn’t improving.
Freedom from the Chaos will help you and your partner identify if you’re spiraling in a genuinely “high-conflict” reality and guide you through the emotional work to shift unhealthy patterns.
This program will ask you to go deep and delve into vulnerable territories.
It can inspire a search for self-love, the true essence of your relationship, and a path to living in the stepmom role in your own unique way.
And sister, let me tell you…
Once you tap into your personal power, no one can ever take it away from you.
We’re potentially talking about the rest of your life.
Are you ready to start protecting your future? ✨💫
I know how hard this is.
There’s a limit to how much more you can take.
You’re running out of time — and energy — to shift this.
Doing the work NOW is the key to getting ahead of more unnecessary pain.
That’s why my coaching process focuses on solutions — not just more of the problem.
Freedom from the Chaos is an intervention into your present reality that will teach you an unconventional parenting stance. It’s a new approach that will empower you and your partner to shield yourselves — and the kids — from more chaos.
My goal is to get you to a place where the drama and conflict don’t take center stage in your life.
If you do this right, you’ll no longer depend on outside sources or online stepmom groups for advice or to vent.
Instead, you’ll be able to efficiently tackle issues alongside your man and move the hell on with your precious lives.
You won’t need anyone else to validate what you feel in your gut.
And you’ll no longer be vulnerable to generic advice from lawyers, mediators, therapists, and coaches who don’t understand the intricacies of a high-conflict reality.
Consciously choosing the right professionals when needed.
No more wasted time — or money.
The path to reclaiming your life starts today
Freedom from the Chaos is an introspective program that will show you how to live in alignment.
You’ll learn how to pay attention to how you feel, listen to your intuition, and be true to yourself.
Unlocking the essence of YOU.
We’ll line your choices up with your core values and teach you the foundational skills to take this forward into other areas of your life.
This isn’t easy.
It takes effort.
You’re going to have to dig deep.
But it works.
I know it might be daunting.
But once you’ve mastered this alignment process, you’ll be able to return to it with a calm sense of confidence that you and your relationship can handle anything.
It can feel as if you’re peeling away shallow layers as you tune in to who you truly are, and set the real you free.
No more bullshit.
THIS is what it looks like to take your power back.
“Maiko is changing my life one session at a time.
After going through a low-conflict divorce when my children were 3 and 6, I met the man of my dreams. He was perfect for me in every way, but with two kids of his own, he brought along a high-conflict ex wife who the legal system forced him to “co-parent” with.
As the months went by, I realized that we weren’t just dealing with a bitter woman. She was different, and her actions were unfathomable. She would do anything to keep my partner and his young children apart.
We spent the last 2+ years spinning our wheels, trying out every ‘tactic’ in the book to get very simple court orders complied with. All we wanted was to provide his kids with some sense of stability, and ourselves with just an ounce of peace.
But nothing worked — until I met Maiko. Within a few minutes with Maiko, I felt completely understood. Within a few hours, I felt empowered. And within a few weeks, I felt armed with enough tools and knowledge to begin shifting the crazy-making dynamic that my partner’s ex had us trapped in for years.
We are finally getting our lives back, refocusing our energy, and protecting ourselves and our family from the chaos, and it’s all thanks to Maiko.”
One-on-one coaching and support conducted in twelve 60-minute video sessions via Skype, Zoom or Facetime.
Access to my Private Facebook Support Group.
Referral network of lawyers, mediators, parenting coordinators, court preparation specialists, and therapists who are well versed in high-conflict co-parenting dynamics.
Everyone is at a different place when it comes to their emotional well-being, relationship health, and co-parenting dynamic.
That’s why Freedom from the Chaos is a 1:1 coaching program tailored to each individual’s unique situation.
We’ll focus on these core areas:
I’ve found that it typically takes about 12 hours to work through the course and create profound change — but since it’s such a layered topic and everyone is different, there are lots of options available to carve out a plan that works best depending on your needs.
You can immerse yourself in the program by working through your sessions as quickly as possible — or schedule chats once a week if you prefer to take it slow.
You set the pace!
I’m also available for an immediate 60-minute or 90-minute “Solution Session” should you need immediate guidance on a particular issue (independent of the usual FFTC program outline). Payment can be applied toward a 4-session package as outlined below should you choose to continue coaching.
One 60-minute session is regularly $95, currently available at a 20% discount for stepmoms at $75.
One 90-minute is regularly $140, currently available at a 20% discount $115.
Purchase four 60-minute 1:1 coaching sessions currently at a 25% discount. Most clients need about 12 hours to work through the entire program, but everyone is different — decide as you go. Payment is due before each 4-session package commences.
Purchase four 90-minute 1:1 coaching sessions currently at a 25% discount. Many clients seem to prefer longer sessions since the subject matter is so layered. You choose what works best for you. Payment is due before each 4-session package commences.
Purchase four 60-minute couples’ coaching sessions currently at a 25% discount. Or, have your partner join our 1:1 session as needed for an additional $30 per session. Client must first complete one 4-session package of individual coaching before progressing with couples’ sessions. Payment is due before each package commences.
Purchase four 60-minute group coaching sessions currently at a 25% discount. Group size will be a maximum of five women. Message me if you’d like me to coordinate a group mastermind. Payment is due before each package commences.
Purchase twelve 60-minute 1:1 coaching sessions currently available at a 25% discount plus an additional saving of $50 because it’s paid in full. Full program is equivalent to 12 hours of coaching and can be broken up into 90-minute sessions if you prefer. Payment is due before program commences.
I understand what you’re going through because I’ve lived it.
I firmly believe that a coach can’t take you where they haven’t been themselves.
I began my journey by providing relationship and empowerment coaching to women across the world.
Then, six years ago, I found myself struggling in my relationship with a man who has kids. He was an awesome partner in every way except for the drama his past decisions brought into my life. As the shit started to hit the fan, I felt like my life was speeding toward a train wreck and I couldn’t stop it. I even found myself secretly hoping he would do something “bad,” so I could justify leaving him.
He never did.
I realized that I had to make sense of what was happening if I wanted our relationship to survive. I wanted to stay together, but I sure as hell wasn’t about to settle for a life filled with that level of chaos.
Our goal became to find freedom from the conflict together and move on with our lives.
It took a tremendous amount of work to figure out how to create healthy, SUSTAINABLE change amidst a high-conflict co-parenting dynamic. I’m not talking about a few days or weeks of normalcy, then WHAM — another bomb drops, and our lives implode — again.
For five years, I committed to studying under the guidance of some of the best therapists, psychologists, life coaches, and high-conflict specialists.
Once my partner and I implemented foundational changes, I was finally able to walk through the healing process and begin to thrive in my relationship. But, I had to come through the other side before I could get vulnerable enough to share my story — let alone coaching others facing a similar trauma.
Now I know it’s possible to have a peaceful life AND a happy relationship — because we’ve done it.
I’ve condensed my knowledge and experience into Freedom from the Chaos — turning my years of studying, training and hard work into a coaching solution for my soul sisters who are struggling just like I was.
There IS light at the end of this tunnel.
I can show you the path there.
Click here to schedule a complimentary 30-minute Discovery Session.
Let’s see what we can achieve together!