HEY — IT'S OK.

It’s OK if you’re struggling right now.

No one taught you how to handle this.

You’ve fallen in love with a man — but the biological mother of his kids seems hostile.

This wasn’t how it was supposed to go.

Intuitively, you know something isn’t right.

But where can you turn?

You need your partner to be your teammate — but it feels like he’s unconsciously enabling her behavior, fearing what she might do next.

It’s relentless.

Your stomach goes into knots when his phone lights up with a call or message from her.

You start to ask yourself — am I crazy? Am I being too sensitive?

You might have read books, listened to podcasts, or even sought professional advice — but it still isn’t helping.

It feels like she’s determined to make your lives a living hell.

But you’ve got a warrior spirit and you know you have a good man — so you persevere.

You’re drowning in stress and feel like you’re losing control of your life.

You feel isolated.

No one else seems to understand. 

You’ve had ENOUGH. Something needs to change. 

Now what?

I HEAR YOU

You’ve done an AMAZING job so far.

Our stories are more similar than you may think and I know how painful this is.

Many other women are also living in this dysfunctional pattern of pain, anxiety and energy-draining conflict. 

And you know what — this feels hard because it IS hard.

Society pressures us to believe that we should all be able to co-parent cooperatively for the sake of the kids.

BUT you’re living in an abnormal situation and one size does not fit all.

The regular rules of co-parenting can’t be applied to high-conflict cases.

That’s the trap.

And that’s why generic advice isn’t working, as reasonable as it might be.

Being a biological parent does NOT give someone the “right” to play destructive games with other people’s lives.

And most importantly, just because you’re a target, doesn’t mean you have to be a victim.

It might be time to start seeing the situation for what it is. 

You CAN break the cycle.

I can show you how. 

CHANGE STARTS WITH YOU

“If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.” – Stephen Covey

If you want a different outcome, make different choices.

Here’s the thing — the more you blame someone else for being the source of your problems, the more you disempower yourself.

By complaining about the same issues without initiating change or sweeping things under the rug, you’re risking:

YOUR emotional well-being, YOUR physical health, YOUR relationship — not theirs.

The magic happens when we’re able to take a step back and get honest and accountable in our own lives.

YOU get to choose what you will allow into your life and what you won’t accept. 

So — I’m inviting you to approach it with a fresh and empowered perspective. 

Conflict can be an opportunity for growth, or it can wreak havoc on your life.

It can deepen your relationship, or it can destroy it.

You get to choose which path you’ll take. 

FREEDOM FROM THE CHAOS

A transformative one-on-one coaching program for women in the stepmom role who are dating, in a committed relationship, or married to a man who has children.

My course is for those of you in a co-parenting situation that has consistently been causing stress for you and your significant other.

And — no matter how hard you try to co-parent peacefully with the biological mother of the kids — the dynamic isn’t improving.

Freedom from the Chaos will help you and your partner identify if you’re spiraling in a genuinely “high-conflict” reality and guide you through the emotional work to shift unhealthy patterns.

This program will ask you to go deep and delve into vulnerable territories.

It can inspire a search for self-love, the true essence of your relationship, and a path to living in the stepmom role in your own unique way.

And sister, let me tell you…

Once you tap into your personal power, no one can ever take it away from you.

We’re potentially talking about the rest of your life. 

Are you ready to start protecting your future? ✨💫

SOLUTIONS — NOT PROBLEMS

I know how hard this is.

There’s a limit to how much more you can take. 

You’re running out of time — and energy — to shift this. 

Doing the work NOW is the key to getting ahead of more unnecessary pain. 

That’s why my coaching process focuses on solutions — not just more of the problem. 

Freedom from the Chaos is an intervention into your present reality that will teach you an unconventional parenting stance. It’s a new approach that will empower you and your partner to shield yourselves — and the kids — from more chaos. 

My goal is to get you to a place where the drama and conflict don’t take center stage in your life.

If you do this right, you’ll no longer depend on outside sources or online stepmom groups for advice or to vent.

Instead, you’ll be able to efficiently tackle issues alongside your man and move the hell on with your precious lives.

You won’t need anyone else to validate what you feel in your gut.

And you’ll no longer be vulnerable to generic advice from lawyers, mediators, therapists, and coaches who don’t understand the intricacies of a high-conflict reality.

Consciously choosing the right professionals when needed.

No more wasted time — or money.

The path to reclaiming your life starts today

ALIGNMENT IS EVERYTHING

Freedom from the Chaos is an introspective program that will show you how to live in alignment. 

You’ll learn how to pay attention to how you feel, listen to your intuition, and be true to yourself. 

Unlocking the essence of YOU. 

We’ll line your choices up with your core values and teach you the foundational skills to take this forward into other areas of your life.

This isn’t easy.

It takes effort. 

You’re going to have to dig deep. 

But it works. 

I know it might be daunting.

But once you’ve mastered this alignment process, you’ll be able to return to it with a calm sense of confidence that you and your relationship can handle anything. 

It can feel as if you’re peeling away shallow layers as you tune in to who you truly are, and set the real you free.

Finally.

No more bullshit. 

THIS is what it looks like to take your power back.

WHAT YOU'LL GET

One-on-one coaching and support conducted in twelve 60-minute video sessions via Skype, Zoom or Facetime.

Access to my Private Facebook Support Group. 

Referral network of lawyers, mediators, parenting coordinators, court preparation specialists, and therapists who are well versed in high-conflict co-parenting dynamics.

ADDED EXTRAS

  1. Personality tests for you (and your partner if you choose)
  2. Core values worksheet
  3. High-conflict behavior assessment
  4. Communication protocol recommendations
  5. Boundary Bootcamp guideline
  6. Parenting stance overview and personalized suggestions
  7. Custody order overview and individualized guidance

HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE?

Everyone is at a different place when it comes to their emotional well-being, relationship health, and co-parenting dynamic.

That’s why Freedom from the Chaos is a 1:1 coaching program tailored to each individual’s unique situation.

We’ll focus on these core areas:

  • • Inner work
  • • Relationship work
  • • High-conflict dynamics

I’ve found that it typically takes about 12 hours to work through the course and create profound change — but since it’s such a layered topic and everyone is different, there are lots of options available to carve out a plan that works best depending on your needs.

You can immerse yourself in the program by working through your sessions as quickly as possible — or schedule chats once a week if you prefer to take it slow.

You set the pace!

I’m also available for an immediate 60-minute or 90-minute “Solution Session” should you need immediate guidance on a particular issue (independent of the usual FFTC program outline). Payment can be applied toward a 4-session package as outlined below should you choose to continue coaching.

One 60-minute session is regularly $95, currently available at a 20% discount for stepmoms at $75.

One 90-minute is regularly $140, currently available at a 20% discount $115.

HOW MUCH DOES IT COST?

4-Session Package (60 minutes)

Regularly $365 $275

Purchase four 60-minute 1:1 coaching sessions currently at a 25% discount. Most clients need about 12 hours to work through the entire program, but everyone is different — decide as you go. Payment is due before each 4-session package commences. 

4-Session Package (90 minutes)

Regularly $540 $405

Purchase four 90-minute 1:1 coaching sessions currently at a 25% discount. Many clients seem to prefer longer sessions since the subject matter is so layered. You choose what works best for you. Payment is due before each 4-session package commences.

Couples' Sessions

Regularly $525 $395 or +$30/session

Purchase four 60-minute couples’ coaching sessions currently at a 25% discount. Or, have your partner join our 1:1 session as needed for an additional $30 per session. Client must first complete one 4-session package of individual coaching before progressing with couples’ sessions. Payment is due before each package commences. 

Full Program

Regularly $1,100 $775

Purchase twelve 60-minute 1:1 coaching sessions currently available at a 25% discount plus an additional saving of $50 because it’s paid in full. Full program is equivalent to 12 hours of coaching and can be broken up into 90-minute sessions if you prefer. Payment is due before program commences. 

Group Mastermind

Regularly $315 $235

Purchase four 60-minute group coaching sessions currently at a 25% discount. Group size will be a maximum of five women. Message me if you’d like me to coordinate a group mastermind. Payment is due before each package commences. 

ABOUT ME

I understand what you’re going through because I’ve lived it.

I firmly believe that a coach can’t take you where they haven’t been themselves.

I began my journey by providing relationship and empowerment coaching to women across the world.

Then, six years ago, I found myself struggling in my relationship with a man who has kids. He was an awesome partner in every way except for the drama his past decisions brought into my life. As the shit started to hit the fan, I felt like my life was speeding toward a train wreck and I couldn’t stop it. I even found myself secretly hoping he would do something “bad,” so I could justify leaving him.

He never did.

I realized that I had to make sense of what was happening if I wanted our relationship to survive. I wanted to stay together, but I sure as hell wasn’t about to settle for a life filled with that level of chaos.

Our goal became to find freedom from the conflict together and move on with our lives.

It took a tremendous amount of work to figure out how to create healthy, SUSTAINABLE change amidst a high-conflict co-parenting dynamic. I’m not talking about a few days or weeks of normalcy, then WHAM — another bomb drops, and our lives implode — again.

For five years, I committed to studying under the guidance of some of the best therapists, psychologists, life coaches, and high-conflict specialists.

Once my partner and I implemented foundational changes, I was finally able to walk through the healing process and begin to thrive in my relationship. But, I had to come through the other side before I could get vulnerable enough to share my story — let alone coaching others facing a similar trauma.

Now I know it’s possible to have a peaceful life AND a happy relationship — because we’ve done it.

I’ve condensed my knowledge and experience into Freedom from the Chaos — turning my years of studying, training and hard work into a coaching solution for my soul sisters who are struggling just like I was.

There IS light at the end of this tunnel.

I can show you the path there.

We should talk.

xoxo,💖

Maiko

TESTIMONIALS

Maiko has been a lifesaver! My 1:1 time with her has been so valuable and enlightening. For a long time, I felt like I was alone in this struggle of being a step-parent to children whose mother seemed crazy. I've learned useful coping strategies and I have more clarity​ about which issues are worth fighting and which are not. It's so reassuring to know that my frustrations are not only normal but warranted!
-Kim
Maiko was wonderful in helping me set up healthy boundaries when it comes to my husband's ex-wife so I didn’t continue to leave myself and my relationship vulnerable. She helped me feel empowered to stand up against my stepkids' mother and protect my marriage at all costs. Maiko is so easy to work with and has been a great help to me. I'm so thankful that our paths crossed when they did.
-Samantha
I worked with Maiko for about half a year when I was going through a tough time. It was good to know that someone had gone through similar experiences and I was not alone in it. She pushed me to face key issues that people often seem to overlook or bury. To blend lives is never easy, it was good to have Maiko there for me as I faced the challenges not only in the blended family but in my relationship.
-Vivian

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