FREEDOM FROM CHAOS
Unlock your power & break free from a toxic co-parenting dynamic.
Unlock your power & break free from a toxic co-parenting dynamic.
It’s OK if you’re struggling right now.
No one taught you how to handle this.
You’ve fallen in love with a man — but the biological mother of his kids seems toxic.
This wasn’t how it was supposed to go.
Intuitively, you know something isn’t right.
But where can you turn?
You need your partner to be your teammate — but it feels like he’s unconsciously enabling her behavior, fearing what she might do next.
Your stomach goes into knots when his phone lights up with a call or message from her.
You start to ask yourself — am I being too sensitive? Is it just me or is something seriously wrong here?
You might have read books, listened to podcasts, or even sought professional advice — but it still isn’t helping.
It feels like she’s determined to make your lives a living hell.
But, you’ve got a warrior spirit and you know you have a good man — so you persevere.
You’re drowning in stress and feel like you’re losing control of your life and future.
You feel powerless and isolated.
No one else seems to understand.
You’ve had ENOUGH. Something needs to change.
You’ve done an AMAZING job so far.
Our stories are more similar than you may think and I know how painful this is.
Many other women are also living in an unhealthy pattern of hopelessness, anxiety, and energy-draining chaos.
And you know what — this feels hard because it IS hard.
Society pressures us to believe that we should all be able to co-parent cooperatively for the sake of the kids.
BUT you’re living in an abnormal situation and one size does not fit all.
The regular rules of co-parenting can’t be applied to dysfunctional and/or high-conflict cases.
That’s the trap.
And that’s why surface level advice isn’t working, as reasonable as it might be.
Being a biological parent doesn’t give someone the right to play destructive games with your lives.
And just because you’re a target, does NOT mean you have to be a victim.
Some of the most unhealthy and dysfunctional co-parenting relationships have no conflict at all.
Why? Because one household is too afraid to protect themselves in fear of what the toxic co-parent might do next.
That’s no way to live.
And abusive behavior doesn’t just magically go away.
It might be time to start seeing the situation for what it is.
You CAN break the unhealthy cycle.
I can show you how.
“If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.” – Stephen Covey
If you want a different outcome, make different choices.
Here’s the thing — the more you blame someone else for being the source of your problems, the more you disempower yourself.
By sweeping things under the rug or complaining about the same issues without initiating change, you’re risking:
YOUR emotional well-being, YOUR physical health, YOUR partnership — not theirs.
The magic happens when we’re able to take a step back and get honest and accountable in our own lives.
YOU get to choose what you will allow into your life and what you won’t accept.
So — I’m inviting you to approach it with a fresh and empowered perspective.
Conflict can be an opportunity for growth, or it can wreak havoc on your life.
It can deepen your relationship, or it can destroy it.
You get to choose which path you’ll take.
“Maiko is changing my life one session at a time.
After going through a low-conflict divorce when my children were 3 and 6, I met the man of my dreams. He was perfect for me in every way, but with two kids of his own, he brought along a high-conflict ex wife who the legal system forced him to “co-parent” with.
As the months went by, I realized that we weren’t just dealing with a bitter woman. She was different, and her actions were unfathomable. She would do anything to keep my partner and his young children apart.
We spent the last 2+ years spinning our wheels, trying out every ‘tactic’ in the book to get very simple court orders complied with. All we wanted was to provide his kids with some sense of stability, and ourselves with just an ounce of peace.
But nothing worked — until I met Maiko. Within a few minutes with Maiko, I felt completely understood. Within a few hours, I felt empowered. And within a few weeks, I felt armed with enough tools and knowledge to begin shifting the crazy-making dynamic that my partner’s ex had us trapped in for years.
We are finally getting our lives back, refocusing our energy, and protecting ourselves and our family from the chaos, and it’s all thanks to Maiko.”
A transformative one-on-one coaching program for women in the stepmom role who are dating, in a committed relationship, or married to a man who has children.
I also work with biological mothers.
My courses are for those of you in a co-parenting situation that has consistently been causing severe distress.
And — no matter how hard you try to co-parent peacefully with the other bio-parent — the unhealthy dynamic isn’t improving.
It’s the spiritual version of a big “f*ck you” to the predators of this world.
Together, as deeply connected and empowered women, we are so much stronger.
Freedom from Chaos will help you identify if you are spiraling in a genuinely dysfunctional reality and guide you through the emotional work to shift unhealthy patterns.
This program will ask you to go deep and delve into vulnerable territories.
It can inspire a search for self love, the true essence of your relationship, and a path to living in the step/mom role in your own unique way.
And sister, let me tell you…
Once you tap into your personal power, no one can ever take it away from you.
We’re talking potentially about the rest of your life here…
Are you ready to start protecting your future?
I know how hard this is.
There’s a limit to how much more you can take.
You’re running out of time — and energy — to shift this.
Doing the work NOW is the key to getting ahead of more unnecessary pain.
That’s why my coaching process focuses on solutions — not just more of the problem.
Freedom from Chaos is an intervention into your present reality that will teach you an unconventional parenting stance. It’s a new approach that will empower you and your partner to shield yourselves — and the kids — from more chaos.
My goal is to get you to a place where the drama and conflict don’t take center stage in your life.
If you do this right, you’ll no longer depend on outside sources or online stepmom and/or narcissistic abuse groups for advice or venting that never lead to actual change.
Instead, you’ll be able to efficiently tackle issues alongside your man and move the hell on with your precious lives.
You won’t need anyone else to validate what you feel in your gut.
And you’ll no longer be vulnerable to generic advice from lawyers, mediators, therapists, and coaches who don’t understand the intricacies of a high-conflict reality.
Consciously choosing the right professionals when needed.
No more wasted time — or money.
The path to reclaiming your life starts today
“When I came to Maiko I was extremely depressed, anxiety ridden, and beaten down from years of bullying and verbal abuse at the hands of an unwell ex-husband and his equally unwell partner.
Maiko and I have been working together for just a few months and the shift in me has been staggering.
She has helped me reach deep inside of myself to find my inner-warrior.
She has helped me turn my depression into resilience, my anxiety into strength, and my fears into a need to fight for what is right.
I would recommend that anyone, no matter if you are a bio-mom, bio-dad, step-mom or step-dad stuck in a high-conflict situation, work with Maiko.
No one deserves to feel powerless in these situations and Maiko is the best person to have in your corner. She is truly a blessing.”
Freedom from Chaos is an introspective program that will show you how to live in alignment.
You’ll learn how to pay attention to how you feel, listen to your intuition, and be true to yourself.
Unlocking the essence of YOU.
We’ll line your choices up with your values and teach you the foundational skills to take this forward into other areas of your life.
This isn’t easy.
It takes effort.
You’re going to have to dig deep.
But it works.
I know it might be daunting.
But once you’ve mastered this alignment process, you’ll be able to return to it with a calm sense of confidence that you and your relationship can handle anything.
It can feel as if you’re peeling away shallow layers as you tune in to who you truly are, and set the real you free.
No more bullshit.
THIS is what it looks like to take your power back.
“Ever feel lost? On edge? Like you know another disaster is looming…
Maiko transformed my life.
I knew I had to do something to effect a positive change. I spent tens of thousands on lawyers that did nothing to impact my landscape. I spent thousands more with a therapist, and while that helped me deal with the pain of a conflicted parenting relationship, it didn’t do much for me and my children’s daily experience.
Maiko has helped me get organized. I learned how to be direct with my messaging cadence, and how to stay focused on what matters.
My family is so much better off.
With her help I have successfully put crazy in a box where she stays.
I have represented myself in court and won and seen the difference having well documented patterns makes. Most importantly I have been able to maintain healthy boundaries.
I could go on and on and on about how traumatized I was and I could go on just as long about how amazing Maiko is. I’ve already referred a few friends who have high conflict relationships because I truly believe that success leaves footprints.
Maiko cares, she is an angel in my life, every second with her has been priceless.”
I understand what you’re going through because I’ve lived it.
I firmly believe that a coach can’t take you where they haven’t been themselves.
I began my journey by providing relationship and empowerment coaching to women across the world.
Then, many years ago, I found myself struggling in my relationship with a man who has kids.
He was an awesome partner in every way except for the drama his past decisions brought into my life. As the wheels started to come off in his co-parenting situation, I felt like my life was speeding toward a train wreck and there was nothing I could do. I even found myself secretly hoping he would do something bad so I could justify leaving him.
He never did.
I realized that I had to make sense of what was happening if I wanted our relationship to survive. I knew I wanted a future with him, but I sure as hell wasn’t about to settle for a life filled with that level of chaos.
My nervous system couldn’t take it much longer — I was at my breaking point.
We made a conscious decision as a team to do whatever it took to figure out how to contain the chaos and change the situation.
It took a tremendous amount of work to figure out how to create healthy, SUSTAINABLE change. I’m not talking about a few days or weeks of normalcy, then WHAM — another bomb drops, and our lives implode — again.
I committed to studying under the guidance of some of the best therapists, psychologists, life coaches, and high-conflict specialists.
Once Chris and I implemented foundational changes, we were finally able to walk through the healing process and begin to thrive.
Now I know it IS possible to move beyond a toxic co-parenting dynamic and create a peaceful life and happy relationship — because we’ve done it.
As far as my coaching practice, I had to come through the other side before I could get vulnerable enough to share my story — let alone coach women who are facing a similar traumatic experience.
I’ve condensed my knowledge and experience into this Freedom from Chaos Program — turning my years of studying, training and personal work into a coaching solution for my soul sisters who are struggling just like I was.
There IS light at the end of this tunnel.
I can show you the path there.